Marriage is the Best
Peter and Becca Schultz discuss marital topics, tell the story of their marriage year-by-year, and interview marriage experts.
Peter and Becca Schultz discuss marital topics, tell the story of their marriage year-by-year, and interview marriage experts.
Episodes
Feb 3, 2025
#14 - Shame and Fear Cycles
Feb 3, 2025
Feb 3, 2025
27 min
Peter discusses how the different parts of the marriage carry different vulnerabilities. Men are vulnerable to shame and inadequacy and women are vulnerable to fear and isolation. Let us not leave our spouse's in their vulnerable places. If you are struggling in any of these areas feel free to reach out.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jan 27, 2025
#13 - 1000 Conflicts
Jan 27, 2025
Jan 27, 2025
40 min
It can take 1000 different conversations to bring your marriage to a point of feeling deeply connected and satisfied. Entering into these conversations can be scary and intimidating but it is totally worth it! Check it out!
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jan 20, 2025
#12 - Year Two!
Jan 20, 2025
Jan 20, 2025
39 min
Peter and Becca are back at it again discussing their second year of their marriage. They discuss how they moved through the stress and pressures of the second year, two kids, financial stress, mental health, and learning to marriage together. Enjoy!
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jan 13, 2025
#11 - Marriage and Finances Part 1
Jan 13, 2025
Jan 13, 2025
58 min
Peter breaks down his and Becca's financial story for the first 5.5 years of their marriage. Divorce rates are greatly increased when financial stress sticks in the marriage. Getting on the same page and staying on the same will pay you back many times over. The Dave Ramsey Show was not a sponsor of this episode even though they take a huge part of the credit for the system that was worked throughout our marriage. Thanks Dave. Enjoy!
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jan 6, 2025
#10 - 20 Minutes to Save Your Marriage
Jan 6, 2025
Jan 6, 2025
31 min
Peter discusses establishing the rhythm of spending 20 minutes communicating and connecting with your spouse every day. Peter talks about making the 20 minutes your own and common problems faced by couples when attempting to establish the rhythm.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jan 2, 2025
#9 - Year in Review MITB 2024
Jan 2, 2025
Jan 2, 2025
17 min
Peter discusses the first year of making the podcast in a special bonus Thursday edition of MITB. You'll hear about the fabled missing 4 episodes of the podcast, where Becca has been for this last month, the plans for MITB in 2025, and a huge thanks for all of you who have taken the time to engage with the podcast. Happy New Year!
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail or shoot us a text: 612-361-9615
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Dec 30, 2024
Dec 30, 2024
2hr 11 min
Peter and Pastor Lashbrook discuss marriage, the Bible, submission, and sustainability in marriage. Pastor Lashbrook has been married for 17 years and has been serving in student ministries for the last 13 years.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Dec 23, 2024
#7 - The Dangers of Blame in Your Marriage
Dec 23, 2024
Dec 23, 2024
19 min
Peter discusses the impact that blame has on marriage and the corrupting nature of blame on intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship.
Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Resources:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Dec 16, 2024
#6 - Preparing Your Marriage for the Holidays
Dec 16, 2024
Dec 16, 2024
19 min
Peter discusses the importance of preparing your marriage for the onslaught that is getting together with your families during the holidays. Enjoy!
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Resources:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Dec 9, 2024
#5 - Sustainable Systems: The Daily Spark
Dec 9, 2024
Dec 9, 2024
41 min
Peter discusses establishing sustainable systems in your marriage by creating daily connections. Links below feature 4 of the books that were discussed during the podcast which are connected to our amazon affiliate account.
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.





