Marriage is the Best
Peter and Becca Schultz discuss marital topics, tell the story of their marriage year-by-year, and interview marriage experts.
Peter and Becca Schultz discuss marital topics, tell the story of their marriage year-by-year, and interview marriage experts.
Episodes
12 hours ago
#87 - The Chasmatic Marriage
12 hours ago
12 hours ago
5 min
The third episode in the "Spectrum of Marriage" series. What happens with a gridlocked marriage when it continues to be gridlocked over time?
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing.
12 hours ago
5 min
Aug 31, 2026
#86 - The Gridlocked Marriage
Aug 31, 2026
Aug 31, 2026
6 min
The second episode in the "Spectrum of Marriage" series. If you are not Golden in your marriage where are you? Maybe you are feeling gridlocked.
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God
Aug 31, 2026
6 min
Aug 24, 2026
#85 - The Golden Marriage
Aug 24, 2026
Aug 24, 2026
9 min
The first episode in the "Spectrum of Marriage" series. Welcome back! After a long hiatus we are back to discuss the different kinds of marriages that one may find out in the wild. Stay tuned for more! Enjoy!
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God
Aug 24, 2026
9 min
Jul 20, 2026
#84 - Applying Our Own Principles...
Jul 20, 2026
Jul 20, 2026
22 min
How do we actually apply the things we represent on the podcast? Check out how we are doing ourselves on our own principles! Enjoy!
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jul 20, 2026
22 min
Jun 15, 2026
#83 - Marriage and AI Companions
Jun 15, 2026
Jun 15, 2026
32 min
Client pursued an AI companion and appeared to be losing a sense of self, reality, and connection to others. Further exploration and identification required.*
*NOT a real client story
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jun 15, 2026
32 min
Jun 8, 2026
#82 - Marriage: The Next Generation
Jun 8, 2026
Jun 8, 2026
28 min
Peter discusses and reflects on what is going to need to happen next in order for Gen Z to achieve the greatest marital generation of all time.
Caleb Hammer: Financial Audit. Joe Rogan Experience. Iced Coffee Hour.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
Jun 8, 2026
28 min
May 26, 2026
#81 - It'll Get Better!!
May 26, 2026
May 26, 2026
16 min
Peter attempts to encourage a struggling marriage with a short but sweet message and frame on one's relationship. "It'll Get Better!". But he also digs deep into a real marriage story of battling to feel seen heard and known in one's marriage. Enjoy!
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
May 26, 2026
16 min
May 25, 2026
The Marriage Phases Master Episode
May 25, 2026
May 25, 2026
2 hr 45 min
We combined all 6 of the episodes we did on marital phases into one! Peter discusses the honeymoon phase, disillusionment phase, teamwork phase, phase disruption, renegotiation phase and the ultimate phase. Enjoy!
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
May 25, 2026
2 hr 45 min
May 18, 2026
#80 - The Future of Marriage
May 18, 2026
May 18, 2026
27 min
Peter discusses ideas he has been mulling over pertaining to marriage, culture, finances, and future. Giving $500s away to couples to get away for a weekend, interviewing people to understand different cultural forces in marriage across time, or developing a space for Gen Z to become the most successful marriage generation ever.
The Gen Z Gender War: https://youtu.be/MVPpfKOqXY0?si=M39kyB9cXWejuPwK
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
May 18, 2026
27 min
May 4, 2026
May 4, 2026
27 min
As marriages develop over time they inevitably run into tasks that need to be accomplished in order for the system to function properly. Today, Peter discusses the tasks that present themselves in the second two phases of marriage: Teamwork and Renegotiation. How do you move through these stages well and how do you sustain your connection through it all? That is what we attempt to answer. Enjoy!
Youtube: Marriage is the Best - YouTube
101 Questions to Ask Before You're Married, Norman Wright
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done.
The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson
The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar
Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan
Atomic Habits, James Clear
Trust, Henry Cloud
The Love Prescription, Gottman
Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans
Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.
X account: @marriagebestpod
Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com
Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615
Gottman TED Talk:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu
Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us
Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w
The Ramsey Show:
https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500
Resources:
Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman:
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny
Hold Me Tight, Johnson
Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt
If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.
May 4, 2026
27 min





